I say “be teacher, be love, be partner, be parent, be friend, be ally” because this is what the human design was about.
Another beautiful gem shared by Hairol from his personal reading with Linda Dillon.
Divine Mother ~ The Truth of Sacred Union and Partnership
Hairol: I have this stereotype thinking that one cannot be a teacher and be in a relationship at the same time. I don’t know why I have this…
Divine Mother: You are incorrect!
H: I know I am!
DM: If you had an entrenched belief system that this was the truth, I would not speak to you this way. And that is also why, sweet one, I have said to you that this is not the same paradigm as when so many who have sought enlightenment went into the monastery, because that is based – and it was wholly based – in wanting to proceed, but it is a belief system of lack and limitation.
It is a belief system that you cannot engage not only in friendships, in relationships, in collegial activities, but in sacred partnership and still be a teacher. That is a very limited point of view. And sweet one, you have come with and on my behalf not only to dispel these myths but to change them, to eradicate them.
Now, does the mental/emotional/spiritual level of balance, of maturity, of groundedness and elevation required to maintain what you think of as being your teaching role and to be in sacred union, does it require this theme that we are talking about this day of balance? It most certainly does! Because so often what happens is that rather than expanding – and this is what I am asking you to do – rather than expanding what you know is possible, what you know you are capable of, what happens is there is a shrinking, a myopic shrinking, of attention and focus.
Too often in the history of human affairs, what is termed as partnership could just as easily be termed as obsession, because what happens is there is a limited belief system that all the attention must go into one’s partner, one’s family. And very often that obsession is based historically and this has been a great downfall; it is based on the addiction and the participation in drama, so that a human being becomes so engaged in the drama of a relationship that the expansiveness – the fact that it adds, not subtracts – gets lost.
When there is – and yes, we talk about sex – when there is true engagement, not simply physical release… when there is heart, mind, body, soul engagement with another… then there is a common ground, a meeting point, where the energies are merged and the result of that is expansion, not contraction. This is something that humans are re-learning.
When I create – let us be very clear about this – when I create… and I am actually quite good at this! [chuckling]… I expand into what you would think of as the New; I do not contract. And in this… think of you and I, beloved… in that union, the expansion I have is you conjoining me and me conjoining you, so I am within you – and it does not shrink you; it expands you.
So when you are thinking of sacred union, partnership – and I do not simply mean romances or casual affairs; I mean the truth of sacred union – then what you are doing is you are replicating your union with me, and then it is replicated and replicated and replicated, expanded, expanded, expanded – and it is joy-full! It does not become an obsession with control or drama or orgasm or anything else, because what you have done is you are engaging the totality of your being.
Too often, what has happened with these humans is they have segmented themselves, and it is a very curious thing. They have segmented themselves: “Well, this is what I do in relationship… and this is what I do as parent… and this is what I do as professional… and this is what I do as teacher.”
There is no separation; it is the grandest illusion. And my beloved one, I want you, I ask you – you have asked me – to blow that illusion out of the water!
Is it done casually? No. Will you have some trials, some false starts, to begin to experiment? Yes! Because what you are doing is clarifying for your sacred self what this really means. So, do I guide you and say, “be teacher, be pure, be solitary”? No! I say, “be teacher, be love, be partner, be parent, be friend, be ally” because this is what the human design was about.
It was for my angels to have a physical place to play. And I did not say to them “go to planet and just experience one thing”; I gave everything to them, to you, including free will.
And you say to me: “But Mother, what if I make a mistake?” And what I say to thee is: “What if you don’t? What if you don’t make mistakes? What if you come to learn, to see, and to embrace in a truly sacred manner, whether it is soul partner or friend or simply the stranger in the street? What if you come to see them as me?”
This is what I dream for you – not to struggle, beloved, about whether you are sacred… to struggle with “whether I should be in relationship”.
I have deep, profound knowing of thee, obviously, but what you do not feel and what I want you to know is: as much trust that you have in me, I have in you. I revere you. I honour you. I am not going to allow you to slide into oblivion.
No, I do not override your free will, but if I see you slipping off the cliff, do you not think that I reach out and catch you? Of course, I do! I always have and I always will.
